Ready to take your solo sessions to the next level? Our latest blog dives deep into the art of self-pleasure—for men, women, and couples! We’re busting outdated myths, spilling juicy facts, and sharing tips to help you embrace self-love with confidence. Whether you’re a seasoned solo artist or just getting curious, this is your go-to guide for celebrating Masturbation May in the sexiest way possible.

So, you’re looking to up your solo game, huh? Well, babe, you’ve landed in the right Den.

Whether you’re vibing with yourself, putting on a show with your partner, or just curious about how to make Masturbation May your sexiest month yet—we’ve got you covered (and maybe a little slippery). This isn’t just about getting off—it’s about getting to know yourself and turning solo play into self-worship.

Grab your favorite lube, set the mood, and let’s dive into the art of turning yourself on…

Best Masturbation Practices for Men (You’re Welcome, Kings)

1. Change up the grip game. Switch hands. Try a slower stroke. Use a twisting motion. Variety is everything—don’t be boring with your body!
2. Slow. It. Down. Who says you need to rush? Tease yourself. Build that tension. The longer you take, the harder you’ll fall—literally.
3. Lube is your best friend. Water-based or silicone, just make sure it’s slippery enough to glide. Try a warming one for extra spice.
4. Tap into your full-body pleasure. Your nipples, inner thighs, perineum, and even your neck can be sexy AF when you take your time.
5. Don’t be shy—use toys! Our discreet men’s masturbators give a whole new meaning to “me time.” Ever tried a vibrating stroker? Game-changer.

Best Masturbation Practices for Women (Queens, Take the Throne)

1. Set the scene. Candlelight, sensual music, or even a cheeky bath—whatever makes you feel like the goddess you are.
2. Clit is queen. Use your fingers, try circles, tap gently, or get a clitoral vibrator that knows how to buzz you into bliss. We’ve got some real crowd-pleasers.
3. Switch positions. Try laying on your stomach, propping a pillow under your hips, or squatting over a mirror. Explore. Own it.
4. Get visual. Watch yourself in a mirror or record a little spicy video (for your eyes only). Being your own turn-on is next-level sexy.
5. Breathe and be present. Mindful masturbation = stronger orgasms. Slow your breath, follow the rhythm, and ride it out.

Masturbating With a Partner (Double the Fun, Double the Orgasm)

1. Talk dirty—but respectfully. Communication is foreplay. Share what you love. Ask what they crave.
2. Get hands-on. Touch each other while touching yourselves. Mutual masturbation is intimate AF.
3. Feedback is sexy. Moan. Whisper. Guide each other’s hands. Be vocal about your pleasure.
4. Bring in the big toys. Bullet vibes, strokers, finger vibes—oh my! Exploring toys together takes things to electric new heights.
5. Laugh, play, explore. It’s not about performance—it’s about pleasure. Be silly. Be sexy. Just be in it together.

Masturbation Myths That Need to Die Already

Let’s clear the air, shall we? First off, the idea that masturbation is somehow “unhealthy” is pure nonsense. Science—and our satisfied customers—say otherwise. Masturbation can actually reduce stress, help you sleep better, and give you that glowing, just-got-off energy we like to call the “post-O radiance.”

And no, despite what some ridiculous myths have claimed over the years, touching yourself will not make you go blind or give you acne. We’re not in the 1950s anymore—there’s zero scientific evidence backing that BS. What it will do? Boost your mood, confidence, and understanding of what really turns you on.

Some folks still believe that only people who “aren’t getting any” masturbate. LOL. Hard no. People in happy, active sex lives still masturbate—because pleasure isn’t about scarcity, it’s about curiosity and connection with yourself. In fact, regular solo play can actually increase your libido, not kill it. It keeps your arousal system humming, your fantasies fresh, and your orgasms even stronger when you’re with a partner.

And for all the couples out there thinking masturbation is a solo-only sport—think again. Sharing your self-love practice with your partner can be intimate, erotic, and wildly connective. It’s not cheating the team—it’s playing a whole new game together.

Fun, Frisky Facts for Masturbation May

Alright, let’s lighten the vibe with some sexy trivia, shall we?

Did you know the world record for the longest solo session clocks in at a jaw-dropping 10 hours and 10 minutes? Talk about dedication—and endurance. Meanwhile, for the rest of us who enjoy the occasional quickie or slow build, the perks of regular solo play include better sleep, lower stress, and a natural mood lift (thanks, endorphins!).

And here’s a sexy throwback: the ancient Greeks believed masturbation was a divine gift from the gods—a sacred act of honoring fertility and pleasure. Basically, they were the original advocates for self-love. Fast forward to now, and we’ve got an entire month to celebrate it—yes, Masturbation May is totally real. It’s your excuse to try that vibrator you’ve been eyeing, upgrade your lube game, or finally experiment with a new toy that’s been sitting in your cart.

Plus, studies show that folks who masturbate regularly tend to have stronger, more satisfying orgasms. So if you needed a sign to indulge in a little solo session tonight…this is it.

Let’s Keep It Juicy

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